Lest you go thinking I'm some kind of saint, let me assure you that I'm not always able to extend grace like that. It was easy in this case because it triggered a strong feeling of injustice that I knew had less to do with the accident and a lot more to do with my ex-boyfriend. For over nine months I've been trying and failing to muster the grace to forgive him and instead I think I've found the strength to finally talk about it. That and I recently found out he moved out of the country, so I'm a lot less afraid of him. I'm ready to tell my side of the story because I want the whole thing behind me. I'm gonna keep working on it and post it some time after the election. Until then I'll be stressed out enough.